Book 1: The Change Process

Chapter A: The Change Activators: 8 Sections
Awareness and Discernment
Sections: 1-2
Self Care Opportunities  Section: 3
Emotions and Feelings: 
Sections: 4-5-6
Dialogue; Plans; Actions:  Sections: 7-8


Chapter B: Overview: Life Change: 2 Sections
Change Characteristics Section 1  
Change Situations Section 2  


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Awareness and Discernment
Chapter A: Sections 1-2




The Awareness Process
Section 1: The Core Awareness Process

Overview and Procedure



Awareness Opportunities
Section 2: Options: A-F

Presence - Motivation
Habits - Reflection

Imagery/Visioning: 14 Examples
Journey Into Smallness - Journey Into Largeness
Revisiting the Past - Journey from the Present
Visiting Global Future - Future Self Image Journey
Reprogramming Your Past - Programming Your Future
Changing Your Body - Healing Your Mind/Body
Healing a Person - Healing The Earth
Healing The Cosmos - Experiencing Space-Time

Intensity/Charge: 14 Examples
Internal Charges - Charges Regarding Others
Charged Beliefs - Charged Values
Charged Past Events - Charged Future Visions
Class issues - Race Issues - Gender Issues
Local Issues - National/Global Issues
Political Issues - Religion/Spiritual Issues
Mystery/Cosmic Issues






















































Awareness Process

Core Statement
I am aware of _________ , and
I would like ______________ .



To Do:
Express the Core Statement
with a Method of Expression.
(Only ONE Method)

Expression Methods
Sounds or Singing
Speech, Journal, or Writing
Movement and/or Dance
Drawing or Collage
Emotions and/or Feelings
Short skit - Descriptive pose position
Combination of above



Core Results
I am now aware of _________, and
I would like ___________ .



Review - Stop - Take a break:
Or go: to ONE of these options:  
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Dialogue/Discussion
Self Care - Fear - Guilt/Appeasement - Blame


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
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Section 2: Option A
Presence
(Answer the following Questions)



At this moment; I am experiencing
____________________________



At this moment; I am feeling
_________________________



At this moment; I want
______________________




Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Analyze - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links












Section 2: Option B
Motivation

MOTIVATION
DEFINED

The Desire
to Achieved Objectives



BEGINNING PROCESS

List Your Needs
_______________



List Your Passions
________________



List Your Dreams
_________________



List Your Intentions
__________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Analyze - Vision
OR; Continue Next Line:



MOTIVATION STATEMENT


SOME MOTIVATION
EXAMPLES
Money - Marriage
Family - Free time
Romance - New career
Travel - Live elsewhere



WHAT MOTIVATES ME NOW ?
______________________________




Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision
OR; Continue Next Line:



FOCUSING IN


WHAT MOTIVATES ME THE MOST?
____________________________




Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision



Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links













Section 2: Option C
Habits


HABIT SITUATIONS

My attitude habits are
______________________


My behavior habits are
____________________


My activity habits are
____________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Analyze - Vision
OR; Continue Next Line:


HABIT OPTIONS

Positive Habits I choose to keep
___________________________


Positive Habits I choose to stop
____________________________


Habits I will eliminate
____________________


Habits I will begin
__________________


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Analyze - Vision
OR; Continue Next Line:


HABIT CHANGE WITH
GREATEST INTENSITY
_______________________


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links



























Section 2: Option D
Reflection


Some reflections I am aware of are;
______________________________



Memories of the past
___________________



Thoughts of the future?
___________________



A specific past event.

___________________



A possible future event?
___________________



A Vision?
___________




A Goal?
_____________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Awareness - Analyze - Vision
OR; Continue Next Line:



FOCUSING IN

PERSONAL REFLECTION
WITH GREATEST INTENSITY
_____________________________




Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Awareness - Vision



Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links








Section 2: Option E: Example 1
Journey Into Smallness

Preparation Procedure
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Slowly experience the Imagery Process

Imagery Techniques
Allow pictures, Add sound - Add color
Allow a story or drama to play out
Be aware when shift of attention or focus occur
Take a breath - Continue the process

Additional Note:
The imagery process can be more effective
in group situations followed by a sharing session.


Begin Imagery into Smallness

Start with any object (examples: car – house- city - body)
Visualize a large part of the object
Visualize smaller parts of the object
Visualize the smallest part getting smaller and smaller
Observe where mind goes.



ONCE
COMPLETED

Reflect on the journey - Relax
Allowing time for internal dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision

Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option E: Example 2
Journey Into Largeness

Preparation Procedure
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Slowly experience the Imagery Process

Imagery Techniques
Allow pictures, Add sound - Add color
Allow a story or drama to play out
Be aware when shift of attention or focus occur
Take a breath - Continue the process

Additional Note:
The imagery process can be more effective
in group situations followed by a sharing session.


Begin Imagery into Largeness:

Start with any object (examples: car – house- city - body)
Visualize the object; twice as wide
Visualize the object three times as high
Visualize the object getting larger and larger
Observe where mind goes.



ONCE
COMPLETED

Reflect on the journey - Relax
Allowing time for internal dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option E: Example 3
Revisiting the Past

Preparation Procedure
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Slowly experience the Imagery Process

Imagery Techniques
Allow pictures, Add sound - Add color
Allow a story or drama to play out
Be aware when shift of attention or focus occur
Take a breath - Continue the process

Additional Note:
The imagery process can be more effective
in group situations followed by a sharing session.


Focus the Imagery
Be aware of one Life Aspect of the Past:
Childhood - Family
Relationships - Career
Education - Friends
Finances - Life mission


Begin Journey Revisiting the Past

Be aware of specific events which have occurred
Be aware of events. Persons, places and emotions
Observe where mind goes.



ONCE
COMPLETED

Reflect on the journey - Relax
Allowing time for internal dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option E: Example 4
Journey from the Present

Preparation Procedure
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Slowly experience the Imagery Process

Imagery Techniques
Allow pictures, Add sound - Add color
Allow a story or drama to play out
Be aware when shift of attention or focus occur
Take a breath - Continue the process

Additional Note:
The imagery process can be more effective
in group situations followed by a sharing session.


Focus the Imagery
Be aware of one aspect
of your current life situation:
An unresolved issue - A person
A charges experience - A possession you enjoy
A current situation


Begin Journey from the Present

Be aware of specific possible situations
Be aware of persons – places and emotions
Observe where mind goes.



ONCE
COMPLETED

Reflect on the journey - Relax
Allowing time for internal dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option E: Example 5
Visiting Global Future

Preparation Procedure
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Slowly experience the Imagery Process

Imagery Techniques
Allow pictures, Add sound - Add color
Allow a story or drama to play out
Be aware when shift of attention or focus occur
Take a breath - Continue the process

Additional Note:
The imagery process can be more effective
in group situations followed by a sharing session.


Focus the Imagery
Be aware of one aspect
of the global future:
An unresolved Issue - Politics
Economics – Health care
Education - Military

Begin Journey Visiting the Global Future

Be aware of specific possible future situations
Be aware of persons – dates - places - emotions
Observe where your mind goes.



ONCE
COMPLETED

Reflect on the journey - Relax
Allowing time for internal dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option E: Example 6
Future Self Image

Preparation Procedure
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Slowly experience the Imagery Process

Imagery Techniques
Allow pictures, Add sound - Add color
Allow a story or drama to play out
Be aware when shift of attention or focus occur
Take a breath - Continue the process

Additional Note:
The imagery process can be more effective
in group situations followed by a sharing session.


Begin Journey of Future Self Image

Be aware of your life in the future:
Imagine your appearance
Imagine your future experiences
Be aware of your behaviors, attitude and emotions
Observe where your mind goes.



ONCE
COMPLETED

Reflect on the journey - Relax
Allowing time for internal dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option E: Example 7
Reprogramming Your Past

Preparation Procedure
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Slowly experience the Imagery Process

Imagery Techniques
Allow pictures, Add sound - Add color
Allow a story or drama to play out
Be aware when shift of attention or focus occur
Take a breath - Continue the process

Additional Note:
The imagery process can be more effective
in group situations followed by a sharing session.


Begin Reprogramming Your Past

Focus on being aware of a past experience:
Visualize the time and place of the experience.
Imagine how you would have liked to handle the situation.
Imagine how you would have liked to experience the situation.
Imagine a improved result from the experience.
Imagine a different experience.



ONCE
COMPLETED

Reflect on the journey - Relax
Allowing time for internal dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option E: Example 8
Programming Your Future

Preparation Procedure
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Slowly experience the Imagery Process

Imagery Techniques
Allow pictures, Add sound - Add color
Allow a story or drama to play out
Be aware when shift of attention or focus occur
Take a breath - Continue the process

Additional Note:
The imagery process can be more effective
in group situations followed by a sharing session.


Begin Programming Your Future

Focus on being aware of a future experience:
Visualize the time and place of the future experience.
Imagine how you would like to handle the future situation.
Imagine how you would like to experience the future situation.
Imagine the result from the future experience.



ONCE
COMPLETED

Reflect on the journey - Relax
Allowing time for internal dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option E: Example 9
Changing Your Body

Preparation Procedure
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Slowly experience the Imagery Process

Imagery Techniques
Allow pictures, Add sound - Add color
Allow a story or drama to play out
Be aware when shift of attention or focus occur
Take a breath - Continue the process

Additional Note:
The imagery process can be more effective
in group situations followed by a sharing session.


Begin Changing Your Body

Focus on a preferred body for yourself (be realistic):
Visualize the time and place your are experiencing your future body.
Imagine how you experience your future body.
Imagine future activities with your future body.



ONCE
COMPLETED

Reflect on the journey - Relax
Allowing time for internal dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option E: Example 10
Healing Your Mind/Body

Preparation Procedure
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Slowly experience the Imagery Process

Imagery Techniques
Allow pictures, Add sound - Add color
Allow a story or drama to play out
Be aware when shift of attention or focus occur
Take a breath - Continue the process

Additional Note:
The imagery process can be more effective
in group situations followed by a sharing session.


Begin Healing Your Mind/Body

Focus on how you look/feel after your healing:
Visualize the time and place your are experiencing your healed-self.
Imagine how you experience being healed.
Imagine future activities after your healing.



ONCE
COMPLETED

Reflect on the journey - Relax
Allowing time for internal dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option E: Example 11
Healing A Person

Preparation Procedure
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Slowly experience the Imagery Process

Imagery Techniques
Allow pictures, Add sound - Add color
Allow a story or drama to play out
Be aware when shift of attention or focus occur
Take a breath - Continue the process

Additional Note:
The imagery process can be more effective
in group situations followed by a sharing session.


Begin Healing A Person

Focus on how the person looks after their healing:
Visualize the time and place you experience their healing.
Imagine how you experience their being healed.
Imagine their future activities after their healing.



ONCE
COMPLETED

Reflect on the journey - Relax
Allowing time for internal dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option E: Example 12
Healing The Earth

Preparation Procedure
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Slowly experience the Imagery Process

Imagery Techniques
Allow pictures, Add sound - Add color
Allow a story or drama to play out
Be aware when shift of attention or focus occur
Take a breath - Continue the process

Additional Note:
The imagery process can be more effective
in group situations followed by a sharing session.


Begin Healing The Earth

Focus on how the Earth looks after the healing:
Visualize the time and place your are experiencing the healing.
Imagine how you experience the Earth being healed.
Imagine future activities after the Earth has been healed.



ONCE
COMPLETED

Reflect on the journey - Relax
Allowing time for internal dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option E: Example 13
Healing The Cosmos

Preparation Procedure
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Slowly experience the Imagery Process

Imagery Techniques
Allow pictures, Add sound - Add color
Allow a story or drama to play out
Be aware when shift of attention or focus occur
Take a breath - Continue the process

Additional Note:
The imagery process can be more effective
in group situations followed by a sharing session.


Begin Healing The Cosmos

Focus on how you experience the Cosmos after the healing:
Imagine what belief systems are eliminated after the healing.
Imagine the new belief systems after the healing.
Imagine how you experience the Cosmos being healed.
Imagine future Cosmic activities after the healing.



ONCE
COMPLETED

Reflect on the journey - Relax
Allowing time for internal dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option E: Example 14
Experiencing Space-time

Preparation Procedure
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Slowly experience the Imagery Process

Imagery Techniques
Allow pictures, Add sound - Add color
Allow a story or drama to play out
Be aware when shift of attention or focus occur
Take a breath - Continue the process

Additional Note:
The imagery process can be more effective
in group situations followed by a sharing session.


Begin Experiencing Space-time

Focus on an event (past - present - future):

For Past Events:
Imagine the position
of our solar system
at that past point
in time and space.

For the Present:
Imagine the position
of our solar system
at this moment
in time and space.

For Future Event:
Imagine the position
of our solar system
at this future point
in time and space.



ONCE
COMPLETED

Reflect on the journey - Relax
Allowing time for internal dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links







Section 2: Option F: Example 1
Internal Charges


What is a Charge?

A CHARGE is a significant Thought, Idea, Emotion, Attitude, Event or Situation. A CHARGE can occur suddenly or over time. A CHARGE can be a current situation; a past event or a future vision. A CHARGE can be: Positive or Negative; Good or Bad. A CHARGE:indicates potential awareness or a learning opportunity and can be a catalyst for positive change.



INTERNAL CHARGE
EXAMPLES
Money - Success - Career
Romance - Fear
Guilt - Blame


My Internal Charges are
_____________________


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Analyze - Vision
Or: Continue Next Line:



FOCUSING IN


INTERNAL CHARGE
WITH GREATEST INTENSITY
__________________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Analyze - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option F: Example 2
Charges: Regarding Others

What is a Charge?

A CHARGE is a significant Thought, Idea, Emotion, Attitude, Event or Situation. A CHARGE can occur suddenly or over time. A CHARGE can be a current situation; a past event or a future vision. A CHARGE can be: Positive or Negative; Good or Bad. A CHARGE:indicates potential awareness or a learning opportunity and can be a catalyst for positive change.



EXAMPLES
Love - Romance - Finances
Revenge - Betrayal



MY CHARGES
REGARDING OTHERS ARE
__________________________



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Change Related Opportunity
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Or: Continue Next Line:



FOCUSING IN


MY CHARGE REGARDING OTHERS
WITH GREATEST INTENSITY
__________________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option F: Example 3
Charged Beliefs

What is a Charge?

A CHARGE is a significant Thought, Idea, Emotion, Attitude, Event or Situation. A CHARGE can occur suddenly or over time. A CHARGE can be a current situation; a past event or a future vision. A CHARGE can be: Positive or Negative; Good or Bad. A CHARGE:indicates potential awareness or a learning opportunity and can be a catalyst for positive change.


EXAMPLES
Religious - Spiritual
Political – Historical
Personal Wellness


MY CHARGED BELIEFS ARE
________________________


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Analyze - Vision
Or: Continue Next Line:



FOCUSING IN


MY CHARGED BELIEF
WITH GREATEST INTENSITY
__________________________




Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option F: Example 4
Charged Values

What is a Charge?

A CHARGE is a significant Thought, Idea, Emotion, Attitude, Event or Situation. A CHARGE can occur suddenly or over time. A CHARGE can be a current situation; a past event or a future vision. A CHARGE can be: Positive or Negative; Good or Bad. A CHARGE:indicates potential awareness or a learning opportunity and can be a catalyst for positive change.



EXAMPLES
Trust - Commitment - Honesty
Fairness – Integrity


MY CHARGED VALUES ARE
_________________________



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FOCUSING IN


MY CHARGED VALUE
WITH GREATEST INTENSITY
__________________________



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Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option F: Example 5
Charged Past Events

What is a Charge?

A CHARGE is a significant Thought, Idea, Emotion, Attitude, Event or Situation. A CHARGE can occur suddenly or over time. A CHARGE can be a current situation; a past event or a future vision. A CHARGE can be: Positive or Negative; Good or Bad. A CHARGE:indicates potential awareness or a learning opportunity and can be a catalyst for positive change.



EXAMPLES
Injury - Illness - Divorce
Death - Career - Family



MY CHARGED PAST EVENTS ARE
______________________________


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Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Analyze - Vision
Or: Continue Next Line:



FOCUSING IN


MY CHARGED PAST EVENT
WITH GREATEST INTENSITY
__________________________




Review - Stop - Take a break
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Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Example




Section 2: Option F: Example 6
Charged Future Visions

What is a Charge?

A CHARGE is a significant Thought, Idea, Emotion, Attitude, Event or Situation. A CHARGE can occur suddenly or over time. A CHARGE can be a current situation; a past event or a future vision. A CHARGE can be: Positive or Negative; Good or Bad. A CHARGE:indicates potential awareness or a learning opportunity and can be a catalyst for positive change.



EXAMPLES
Injury - Illness - Divorce
Death - Career - Family
Technology - Health Care
Economy - Earth changes


MY CHARGED FUTURE VISIONS ARE
________________________________


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MY CHARGED FUTURE EVENT
WITH GREATEST INTENSITY
__________________________




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Section 2: Option F: Example 7
Charged Class Issues

What is a Charge?

A CHARGE is a significant Thought, Idea, Emotion, Attitude, Event or Situation. A CHARGE can occur suddenly or over time. A CHARGE can be a current situation; a past event or a future vision. A CHARGE can be: Positive or Negative; Good or Bad. A CHARGE:indicates potential awareness or a learning opportunity and can be a catalyst for positive change.


EXAMPLES
Economic - Culture - Language - Appearance
Education - Ethnicity - Age



MY CHARGED CLASS ISSUES ARE
____________________________


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MY CHARGED CLASS ISSUE
WITH GREATEST INTENSITY
__________________________



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Additional Links
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Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
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Section 2: Option F: Example 8
Charged Race Issues

What is a Charge?

A CHARGE is a significant Thought, Idea, Emotion, Attitude, Event or Situation. A CHARGE can occur suddenly or over time. A CHARGE can be a current situation; a past event or a future vision. A CHARGE can be: Positive or Negative; Good or Bad. A CHARGE:indicates potential awareness or a learning opportunity and can be a catalyst for positive change.



EXAMPLES
Culture
Language
Appearance


MY CHARGED RACE ISSUES ARE
_______________________


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MY CHARGED RACE ISSUE
WITH GREATEST INTENSITY
__________________________



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Section 2: Option F: Example 9
Charged Gender Issues

What is a Charge?

A CHARGE is a significant Thought, Idea, Emotion, Attitude, Event or Situation. A CHARGE can occur suddenly or over time. A CHARGE can be a current situation; a past event or a future vision. A CHARGE can be: Positive or Negative; Good or Bad. A CHARGE:indicates potential awareness or a learning opportunity and can be a catalyst for positive change.



EXAMPLES
Sexual Preference - Appearance
Feminine Behavior - Masculine Behavior
Technoid Behavior - Mystic Behavior - Androgynous Behavior


MY CHARGED GENDER ISSUES ARE
_______________________


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MY CHARGED GENDER ISSUE
WITH GREATEST INTENSITY
__________________________



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Section 2: Option F: Example 10
Charged Local Community Issues

What is a Charge?

A CHARGE is a significant Thought, Idea, Emotion, Attitude, Event or Situation. A CHARGE can occur suddenly or over time. A CHARGE can be a current situation; a past event or a future vision. A CHARGE can be: Positive or Negative; Good or Bad. A CHARGE:indicates potential awareness or a learning opportunity and can be a catalyst for positive change.



EXAMPLES
Taxes - Priorities - Schools
Favoritism - Politics


MY CHARGED
LOCAL COMMUNITY ISSUES ARE
_______________________________


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MY LOCAL COMMUNITY ISSUE
WITH GREATEST INTENSITY
__________________________




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Section 2: Option F: Example 11
Charged National/Global Issues

What is a Charge?

A CHARGE is a significant Thought, Idea, Emotion, Attitude, Event or Situation. A CHARGE can occur suddenly or over time. A CHARGE can be a current situation; a past event or a future vision. A CHARGE can be: Positive or Negative; Good or Bad. A CHARGE:indicates potential awareness or a learning opportunity and can be a catalyst for positive change.



EXAMPLES
Taxes - Education - Heath - Military
Trade - Ecology - Poverty - Population



MY CHARGED
NATIONAL ISSUES ARE
_______________________


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MY NATIONAL/GLOBAL ISSUE
WITH GREATEST INTENSITY
__________________________



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Section 2: Option F: Example 12
Charged Political Issues


What is a Charge?
A CHARGE is a significant Thought, Idea, Emotion, Attitude, Event or Situation. A CHARGE can occur suddenly or over time. A CHARGE can be a current situation; a past event or a future vision. A CHARGE can be: Positive or Negative; Good or Bad. A CHARGE:indicates potential awareness or a learning opportunity and can be a catalyst for positive change.


EXAMPLES
Politics parties - Candidates - Voting Process
Election process - Campaign process




MY CHARGED POLITICAL ISSUES ARE
________________________________


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MY CHARGED POLITICAL ISSUES,
WITH GREATEST INTENSITY
__________________________



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Section 2: Option F: Example 13
Charged Religion/Spiritual Issues

What is a Charge?
A CHARGE is a significant Thought, Idea, Emotion, Attitude, Event or Situation. A CHARGE can occur suddenly or over time. A CHARGE can be a current situation; a past event or a future vision. A CHARGE can be: Positive or Negative; Good or Bad. A CHARGE:indicates potential awareness or a learning opportunity and can be a catalyst for positive change.


EXAMPLES
Religions - Chosen People - World teacher
After life - Sexuality - Reproduction - God




MY CHARGED
RELIGION/SPIRITUAL ISSUES ARE:
________________________________



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WITH GREATEST INTENSITY
_____________________________



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Section 2: Option F: Example 14
Charged Mystery/Cosmic Issues

What is a Charge?
A CHARGE is a significant Thought, Idea, Emotion, Attitude, Event or Situation. A CHARGE can occur suddenly or over time. A CHARGE can be a current situation; a past event or a future vision. A CHARGE can be: Positive or Negative; Good or Bad. A CHARGE:indicates potential awareness or a learning opportunity and can be a catalyst for positive change.


EXAMPLES
Creation - Free Will - Evolution
Reincarnation - Creator - Existence/Life mystery




MY CHARGED COSMIC ISSUES ARE:
________________________________



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MY CHARGED COSMIC ISSUE
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__________________________



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Self Care Opportunities
Chapter A: Section 3: Categories: A-D


Faith; Self Worth; Support
Section 3: Category A: Topics 1-14

Inner Support - Positive Atmosphere
Supportive Behavior - Possible Support Limitations
Supportive Characteristics - Supportive Categories
Your Present Support System
A Personal Support Group
Network Expansion - Network Maintenance
Supportive Organizations - Paid Support
Intuitive Support - Animal Support

Relaxation Techniques
Section 3: Category B: Topics 1-4

Body Focus - Breath Focus
Cell Focus - Voice Focus

Movement and Change
Section 3: Category C: Topics 1-3

Internal - Subtle - Slow

Body Imagery
Section 3: Category D: Topics 1-5

Cell Components - Endocrine System
Body Systems - Body Organs
Body Sense Organs



















Section 3: Category A: Topic 1
Inner Support

POSITIVE SELF-TALK
Acknowledge positive thoughts
Assert positive spoken words
Write positive thoughts
Speak positive thoughts



AFFIRMATIVE
STATEMENT
EXAMPLES

I affirm a perfect day
I affirm a good business meeting


FAITH
STATEMENT
EXAMPLES

I have faith in God
I have faith in my spirit guide
I have faith in my self


I AM
STATEMENT
EXAMPLES

I am love
I am beauty
I am healthy
I am worthy



I WILL
STATEMENTS
EXAMPLES

I will attract love
I will be more assertiveness
I will be abundant


FOCUSING IN

POSITIVE SELF TALK STATEMENT
WITH GREATEST IMPACT
________________________


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POSITIVE THOUGHT
EXAMPLES
Prayer - Active meditation
Positive situations
Positive result
Positive vision
Positive attitudes


FOCUSING IN

MY POSITVE THOUGHT
WITH GREATEST IMPACT
________________________



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Section 3: Category A: Topic 2
Positive Atmosphere


EXAMPLES
Light, fun situations
Positive social environment
Conversations with supportive persons
Easy, friendly dialogue


FOCUSING IN

POSITVE ATMOSPHERE
WITH GREATEST IMPACT
________________________



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Section 3: Category A: Topic 3
Supportive Behavior

VERBAL PRAISE
EXAMPLES

You did a good job
Way to go
Active listening
Appreciation


NON-VERBAL
PRAISE
EXAMPLES

Smiling
Attention

Being there
Open posture
Eye contact
Acts of courtesy
Hugs/Touch
Warm voice tone



SUPPORTIVE
ACTION
EXAMPLES

Available during crisis
Available for celebration
Financial help


FOCUSING IN

SUPPORTIVE BEHAVIOR
WITH GREATEST IMPACT
________________________




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METHODS TO ENCOURAGE
SUPPORT FOR YOURSELF
Ask for Help,
Ask for Support,
Express your needs
in a Express your dreams/visions


FOCUSING IN

METHODS TO ENCOURAGE SUPPORT
WITH GREATEST IMPACT
____________________________




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POSSIBLE CHALLENGES
RECEIVING SUPPORT

Personal boundaries
Unspoken agenda
Manipulation
Dependency
Payback issues


FOCUSING IN

CHALLENGES TO RECEIVING SUPPORT
WITH GREATEST IMPACT
________________________________




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Section 3: Category A: Topic 4
Self-Support Limitations


LIMITATION EXAMPLES
Feelings of isolation
No personal feedback
Little perspective form other persons
No input from health or wellness professionals


FOCUSING IN

SELF-SUPPORT LIMITATIONS
WITH GREATEST IMPACT
________________________




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Section 3: Category A: Topic 5
Supportive Characteristics

 
Examples of Supportive Characteristics
A: Role model - B: Desired skill - C: Common Interest - D: Helps me
   E: Expert - F: Similar business interest - G: Networker - H: Challenger
   I: Mentor J: Listens - K: Motivate me - L: Accepts me - M: Fun/Easy
   N: Nurtures me - O: High profile person - P: Professional equal
   Q: Talker - R: Potential client - S: Client - T: There, when I feel alone
   U: Affirms, when in doubt - V: Encourages change,when excited/scared
   W: Loves, me when feel unloved - X: Encourages my dreams
   Y: Complements me - Z: Shows appreciation - AA: Intimate touch
   BB: Supports what I want


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Section 3: Category A: Topic 6
Supportive Categories

A: SOUL MATE
Helps Me - Listens - Accepts me
Nurtures me - Fun/Easy - Loves, me when feel unloved
Shows appreciation - Intimate touch - Supports what I want



B: CORE BUDDY
Helps Me - Listens - Accepts me
Nurtures me - There, when I feel alone



C: CRISIS SUPPORT
Listens fully - Affirms, when in doubt:


D: CHANGE SUPPORT
Challenges me - Listens
Encourages my change, when I am scared
Encourages dreams - Complements me


E: SOCIAL NETWORK
Common Interest
Good Networker
Fun/Easy


F: OLE MODEL
Desired skill
Expert
Mentor


G: BUSINESS NETWORK
Similar business interest - Networker
High profile person - Professional
Talker - Potential client - Client


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Section 3: Category A: Topic 7
Your Present Support System


YOUR WORK LIST
(Procedure I)
List on a piece of paper
all the persons
you would say "hello" to
if you noticed them.

(A line for each person)




(Procedure II)
Complete List:
Assign Characteristic Codes
to every person on list.

See Topic 5: for Support Characteristic Codes.


Procedure III
See Topic 6: for Support Category Codes.
Answer the following Questions:


Identify the persons currently in your life
who fulfill a support member category.
(identify the category)


Identify the persons in your life
who could be in a support member category.
(identify the category)


Identify the categories of support,
where additional members are needed.



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Procedure IV
PLAN ACTIVITIES
WITH APPROPRIATE PERSONS

Meeting - Lunch – Phone/Email
Social time - Invite Party - Exchange Services
Information interview - Share goals - Telemarketing



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Section 3: Category A: Topic 8
A Personal Support Group


BENEFITS
Meets regular basis
Encourages expression and support
Supports healing change
Encourage personal sharing
Provides for a group interactive process.


ORGANIZATION/GUIDELINES
Meets regular basis - Membership (5-8)
Each member commits to attend meetings
Rotation of facilitator duties
Meeting Frequency: Bi-weekly best, monthly OK
Meeting length; 2 hours
Food, drink, and social time are optional
Special gathering and Celebrations; (2-3 times a year)


SUGGESTED
MEETING AGENDA

Opening - Centering
Relaxation procedure


Brief Check In
Each member has option
to share: significant event.


If there are serious concerns:
additional time is allowed


Interactive Presentation
Led by facilitator of meeting:
Short presentation
Discussion
Personal sharing


Process Time
How people felt about the meeting?

How each member feels now?
Centering process
Hugs - Goodbyes



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Section 3: Category A: Topic 9
Network Expansion


SUPPORT SYSTEM
EXPANSION POSSIBILITIES

Friends - Social Contacts
Relatives - Neighbors - Co-workers.


FOCUSING IN

MY GREATEST POTENTIAL TO
EXPAND MY SUPPORT NETWORK __________________________________



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BUSINESS NETWORK
EXPANSION POSSIBILITIES

Business Professionals - Politician
Prior Employer - Clergy



BUSINESS EXPANSION
ACTIVITY OPTIONS


Personally Related Activities
Join club - Learning Event - Outdoor Activity
Join professional society - Volunteer work
Go out different friends - Give a party - Be seen


Business Related Activities
Information interview - Workshops - Promotional flyer
Presentations - Business Meeting - Business Support Organizations:
Chamber Commerce - Economic Development Organizations -
University Small Business Development - Government Agencies


FOCUSING IN

MY GREATEST POTENTIAL TO
EXPAND BUSINESS NETWORK
__________________________________



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Section 3: Category A: Topic 10
Network Maintenance


GUIDELINES - STRATEGY - DIFFICULTY
Keep simple and minimize energy
Maintain and keep current
Be appreciative and reciprocate
Remember, takes time and energy
Risk of; possible disappointment


FOCUSING IN

GREATEST CONCERN
REGARDING NETWORK MAINTENANCE
__________________________________



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Section 3: Category A: Topic 11
Supportive Organizations


TYPE ORGANIZATIONAL
Help lines
Religious - Spiritual
Social Service


BENEFITS
Confidential
Available in crises
No personal involvement
Increased objectivity
Less emotional investment


FOCUSING IN

SUPPORT ORGANIZATION
WITH GREATEST POTENTIAL
__________________________________



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Section 3: Category A: Topic 12
Paid Support


SERVICE OPTIONS
Counseling, psychologist, psychiatrist;
Massage therapist, Intuitive, healer
Business or legal consultant
Personal mentor or coach
Support group facilitation



ADVANTAGES
You choose time
You have more control
A money/service exchange,
Customer/client relationship


FOCUSING IN

PAID SUPPORT
WITH GREATEST POTENTIAL
__________________________________



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Section 3: Category A: Topic 13
Intuitive Support
(non physical)



SUPPORT
DISCRIPTION
Soul beings
Spirit beings
Nature beings
Nurturing Objects


COMMUNICATION
TECHNIQUES
Being quiet - Relaxation
Faith - Waiting - Patience
Meditation - Prayer
Petition: asking
Dialogue - Conversation


FOCUSING IN

POSITVE INTUITIVE SUPPORT
WITH GREATEST IMPACT
________________________




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Section 3: Category A: Topic 14
Support From Animals


TYPE SUPPORT
Presence
Listening
Touch


FOCUSING IN

POSITVE SUPPORT FROM ANIMALS
WITH GREATEST IMPACT
________________________




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Section 3: Category B: Topic 1
Body Focus Relaxation

Allow soothing energy into your toes,

allow energy to move over your arches,

your ankles and throughout your legs.


INTERNAL THOUGHTS
AFTER COMPLETING THIS SECTION:

All Your muscle are relaxed



Allow soothing energy into your body trunk,

branch into your back, your shoulders,

and through your arms,

up to your hands and fingers.



INTERNAL THOUGHTS
AFTER COMPLETING THIS SECTION:

You are tension free




Now, go up the back of your head,

over your crown,

allow soothing energy to cover your entire face.


INTERNAL THOUGHTS
AFTER COMPLETING THIS SECTION:

You are completely relaxed





ONCE
RELAXATION PROCESS
IS COMPLETE

Be still - Be Quiet - Relax
Allow Internal Dialogue


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Section 3: Category B: Topic 2
Breath Focus and Relaxation

Breathe normal breath,

Allow thoughts to disappear into your breath,

If thoughts reappear,
allow the thoughts to disappear into your breath,

increase breath - decrease breath,
always go back to normal breath.



ONCE
RELAXATION PROCESS
IS COMPLETE

Be still – Be Quiet - Relax
Allow Internal Dialogue


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Section 3: Category B: Topic 3
Cell Focus and Relaxation

Start with any body area:

Focus on smaller and smaller parts of the body area:

Focus on a cell within the body area:

Visualize a healthy, fully functioning cell:

Visualize the health of that cell
influencing all the cells in your entire body.



ONCE
RELAXATION PROCESS
IS COMPLETE

Be still – Be Quiet - Relax
Allow Internal Dialogue


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Section 3: Category B: Topic 4
Voice Focus and Relaxation


OVERVIEW INFORMATION
An open mouth; expresses fully
Voice starts 2" above navel
The throat regulates voice



VOICE
RELAXATION
PROCEDURES


Vision and Sound:
The sound of a flute in your head
(sound is somewhat narrow yet full



Vision and Sound:
The sound of a saxophone in your chest
(sound is full bodied)



Vision and Sound:
The sound of percussion in our pelvis
(sounds with a wide mouth; like yawning)



VARIATION OPTIONS
Breathe deeply
Express sounds
Expand sounds
Vary sounds
Feel increased voice power




ONCE RELAXATION PROCESS
IS COMPLETE

Be still - Be Quiet - Relax
Allow Internal Dialogue


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Section 3: Category C: Topic 1
Internal Movement


Overview Statement

Ability to Visual
Internal Body Dynamics


Possible Body Dynamics
To Visualize

Hands - Legs - Neck
Joints - Connective Tissue
Circulation - Digestion
Organs - Glands - Cells
Specific Area to Promote Healing


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AFFIRMATION
OPTIONS


Physical Affirmation
I feel more flexibility in my ______
I feel stress leaving body
I have the ability to ____


Mental Affirmation
Image yourself handling
a life situation more effectively.


Healing Affirmation
Image a specific area of your body
improving in vitality, health, and wholeness.


Life Healing Affirmation
Image a specific
aspect of your life
Being healed



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Section 3: Category C: Topic 2
Subtle Movement


Overview Statement

Ability to Feel
Subtle Body Movement


Possible Subtle Body
Movement To Feel

Hands - Legs - Neck
Joints - Connective Tissue
Specific Area to Promote Healing


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AFFIRMATION
OPTIONS


Physical Affirmation
I feel more flexibility in my ______
I feel stress leaving body
I have the ability to ____


Mental Affirmation
Image yourself handling
a life situation more effectively.


Healing Affirmation
Image a specific area of your body
improving in vitality, health, and wholeness.


Life Healing Affirmation
Image a specific
aspect of your life
Being healed.


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Section 3: Category C: Topic 3
Slow Movement


Overview Statement

Ability to Slowly
Move Body


Possible Options To
Move Slowly

Hands - Legs - Neck
Joints - Connective Tissue
Sway - Bend - Reach - Stretch
Specific Area to Promote Healing


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AFFIRMATION
OPTIONS


Physical Affirmation
I feel more flexibility in my ______
I feel stress leaving body
I have the ability to ____


Mental Affirmation
Image yourself handling
a life situation more effectively.


Healing Affirmation
Image a specific area of your body
improving in vitality, health, and wholeness.


Life Healing Affirmation
Image a specific
aspect of your life
Being Healed.


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Section 3: Category D: Topics 1
Cell Components
Imagery and Awareness


   Note:  Continuing on-going research will enhance
cell component visualization and healing opportunities.

To Do:
Visualize the following
components of a human cell.
(One Cell Component At A Time)

The Seven
Cell Components
External Space Between Cells
Cell Membrane
Stem Cell Dynamics
DNA Function
RNA Function
Protein Production
Nucleus


Imagery Preparation and Techniques
Slowly experience the Imagery Process
Allow pictures - Add sound - Add color
Be aware when a shift of attention or focus occurs
Take a breath - Continue the process


Begin Imagery of a Cell Component
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Visualize one of the cell components
Visualize how the cell component functions
(research may be necessary)
Visualize how the cell component is functioning now

Visualize old or diseased cells being released with
the breath, and gentle removed by the blood stream
and the body elimination process.

Visualize stem cells generating new, healthy,
vibrant cell components.


Once the Imagery Process is Completed
Relax: Go into no think state (Be)
Reflect on the experience
Allow time for Internal Dialogue


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Section 3: Category D: Topics 2
Endocrine Systems Components
Imagery and Awareness

   Note:  Continuing on-going research will enhance
endocrine system visualization and healing opportunities.


To Do:
Visualize the following
endocrine system components.
(One Component At A Time)

The Seven
Endocrine System Components
Pineal Gland
Pituitary Gland
Thyroid Glands
Thymus Gland
Adrenal Glands
Sexual Glands


Imagery Preparation and Techniques
Slowly experience the Imagery Process
Allow pictures - Add sound - Add color
Be aware when a shift of attention or focus occurs
Take a breath - Continue the process


Begin Imagery of a Endocrine System Components
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Visualize one endocrine system component
Visualize how the endocrine system component functions
(research may be necessary)
Visualize how the endocrine system component is functioning now

Visualize old or diseased cells being released with
the breath, and gentle removed by the blood stream
and the body elimination process.

Visualize stem cells generating new, healthy,
vibrant endocrine system cells.


Once the Imagery Process is Completed
Relax: Go into no think state (Be)
Reflect on the experience
Allow time for Internal Dialogue


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Section 3: Category D: Topics 3
Body Systems
Imagery and Awareness


   Note:  Continuing on-going research will enhance
body system visualization and healing opportunities.

To Do:
Visualize the following
components of a body system.
(One Body System At A Time)

The Fourteen
Body System Elements
Connecting Tissue
Skin
Muscle
Bones
Immune
Neural
Circulation
Respiratory
Digestion
Eliminate
Emotions
Think
Feelings
Reproduction


Imagery Preparation and Techniques
Slowly experience the Imagery Process
Allow pictures - Add sound - Add color
Be aware when a shift of attention or focus occurs
Take a breath - Continue the process


Begin Imagery of a Body System
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Visualize one Body System
Visualize how the Body System functions
(research may be necessary)
Visualize how the Body System is functioning now

Visualize old or diseased cells being released with
the breath, and gentle removed by the blood stream
and the body elimination process.

Visualize stem cells generating new, healthy,
vibrant body system cells.


Once the Imagery Process is Completed
Relax: Go into no think state (Be)
Reflect on the experience
Allow time for Internal Dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision

OR; repeat process for another Body System


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
OR; GoTo Next Topic




Section 3: Category D: Topics 4
Body Organs
Imagery and Awareness


   Note:  Continuing on-going research will enhance
body organ visualization and healing opportunities.

To Do:
Visualize the following
body organs.
(One Organ At A Time)

The Seven
Body Organ Functions
Bladder
Gallbladder
Kidney
Liver
Spleen
Heart
Lungs

Imagery Preparation and Techniques
Slowly experience the Imagery Process
Allow pictures - Add sound - Add color
Be aware when a shift of attention or focus occurs
Take a breath - Continue the process



Begin Imagery of a Body Organ
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Visualize one Body Organ
Visualize how the Body Organ functions
(research may be necessary)
Visualize how the Body Organ is functioning now

Visualize old or diseased cells being released with
the breath, and gentle removed by the blood stream
and the body elimination process.

Visualize stem cells generating new, healthy,
vibrant body organ cells.


Once the Imagery Process is Completed
Relax: Go into no think state (Be)
Reflect on the experience
Allow time for Internal Dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision
OR; repeat process for another body organ


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
Or; GoTo Next Topic




Section 3: Category D: Topics 5
Body Senses
Imagery and Awareness


   Note: 
Continuing on-going research will enhance
sense organ visualization and healing opportunities.


To Do:
Visualize the following
sense organs.
(One Sense Organ At A Time)

The Seven
Body Sense Functions
Hear
See
Smell
Taste
Touch
Hunch
Trans-personal


Imagery Preparation and Techniques
Slowly experience the Imagery Process
Allow pictures - Add sound - Add color
Be aware a when shift of attention or focus occurs
Take a breath - Continue the process


Begin Imagery of a Sense Organ
Get relaxed - Begin with Present Moment
Visualize one sense organ
Visualize how the endocrine sense organ functions
(research may be necessary)
Visualize how the sense organ is functioning now

Visualize old or diseased cells being released with
the breath, and gentle removed by the blood stream
and the body elimination process.

Visualize stem cells generating new, healthy,
vibrant sense organ cells.


Once the Imagery Process is Completed
Relax: Go into no think state (Be)
Reflect on the experience
Allow time for Internal Dialogue


Review - Stop - Take a break:
Or go: to ONE of these options:  
Change Action Plan
Awareness - Analyze - Reflect



Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links






Emotions and Feelings
Chapter A: Sections: 4-5-6


Self-focused Emotions
Section 4: Options: A-G
Guilt/Appeasement - Blame - Fear - Pain
Forgive (self) - Redemption - Letting Go



Other Person-focused Emotions
Section 5: Options: A-G  
Blame - Fear - Anger - Forgive
Grief and Loss - Betrayal - Letting Go



Emotional Learning Opportunities
Section 6: All Purpose Emotional Learning

Overview and Procedure












































Chapter A: Section 4: Option A
Guilt/Appeasement



Opening Affirmation
I Am Worthy


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Vision - Awareness
OR; Continue Next Line:


What do you have;
and do not feel worthy having?
__________________________


What have you done;
and you do not feel good about?
_______________________________



What do you want;
that you do not feel worthy of having
_________________________________



Who do you please;
and your pleasing comes from a “should”
_____________________________________



Who do you agree with;
and your agreeing comes from a “should”
_______________________________________



Focusing In


Guilt Statement
My Guilt with the Greatest Intensity
_____________________________



Release Statement
I release myself from guilt regarding
_______________________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Awareness

Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links





















Chapter A: Section 4: Option B
Blame (self)



Possible
Source of Blame


I blame myself for my action regarding
____________________________



I blame myself for thoughts regarding
___________________________



I blame my attitudes regarding
_________________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Vision - Awareness



FOCUSING IN


My Self Blame With
Greatest Intensity

_________________________



Release Statement
I let go my self-blame regarding
________________________




Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Awareness - Change Options

Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links












Chapter A: Section 4: Option C
Fear


Description of
Fear Level

Mild - Moderate - Intense


My pain is?
(describe level of pain)
_____________________



The Location of Fear
In My Body

Chest - Arm - Head - Stomach – Heart


My fear is located in my?
(describe location of fear)
________________________________





Possible Relationship Between Fear
and Life Circumstances


Life situation my fear relates to is
_________________________



A person my fear relates to is
___________________________


An unresolved situation my fear relates to is
_____________________________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Vision - Awareness
OR; Continue Next Line:



Focusing In


Fear Situation
With Greatest Intensity
______________________________



Release Statement

I release my fear regarding
___________________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Awareness


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links










Chapter A: Section 4: Option D
Pain

Possible Descriptive
Examples of Pain

Dull - Sharp - Pounding – Piercing


My pain is? (describe pain)
___________________



Possible Location of Pain
In my Body

Stomach - Chest
Head - Back
Heart - Arm



I feel my pain
(describe location of body)
__________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Vision - Awareness
OR; Continue Next Line:






Possible Relationship Between Pain
and Life Circumstances



Life situation my pain relates to is
___________________________




A person my pain relates to is
___________________________



An unresolved situation my pain relates to is
_____________________________________




Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Vision - Awareness - Analyze
OR; Continue Next Line:


Focusing In


Pain Situation With
Greatest Intensity
__________________________



Release Statement
I release my pain regarding
____________________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Awareness


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links














Chapter A: Section 4: Option E
Forgive (self)



Forgiveness Metaphor
To untie;
Untie the knot,
that binds you.




Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Vision - Awareness
OR; Continue Next Line:



Possible
Forgiveness Statements


I grant myself forgiveness for my
actions and behaviors regarding (a person)
______________________________



I grant myself forgiveness for my
actions and behaviors regarding (an organization)
______________________________



I grant myself forgiveness for my
actions and behaviors regarding (my self)
______________________________




Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Vision - Awareness - Analyze
OR; Continue Next Line:



Focusing In


Letting Go Statement

Greatest healing potential
is forgiving myself for
____________________



Release Statement
I forgive myself for
__________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Awareness


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links













Chapter A: Section 4: Option F
Redemption


Possible:
Personal Regrets



Attitudes I am sorry I have
______________________



Behaviors I am sorry I do
_____________________



Thoughts I am sorry I have
______________________



Information I am sorry I withheld
________________________



Stories I am sorry I told
____________________



Actions I am sorry I did
____________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Vision - Awareness - Analyze
OR; Continue Next Line:


Focusing In


Redemptive Statement

The regret I have with the greatest intensity is
_________________________________




Release Statement
I release myself from regret for doing
______________________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Awareness
OR; Continue Next Line:



Possible Examples of
Making Amends
Receiving atonement - Doing service
Providing compensation - Providing reparations



Making Amends Statement

I will make amends by doing
_________________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Vision - Awareness



Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links













Chapter A: Section 4: Option G
Letting Go



Letting Go
Metaphors

Burn it; Fire
Bury it; Earth
Wash it; Water
Cast to wind; Air




Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Vision - Awareness
OR; Continue Next Line:




Not Letting Go
(holding on)
Situations


Attitudes I am holding on to are
__________________________



Behaviors I am holding on to are
___________________________



Activities I am holding on to are
__________________________



Thoughts I am holding on to are
_________________________



Events I am holding on to are
_________________________



People I am holding on to
_____________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Vision - Awareness - Analyze
OR; Continue Next Line:


Focusing In


Letting Go Statement
Greatest healing potential
is to let go of
_____________________



Release Statement
I have let go of
_____________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Awareness


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links






Chapter A: Section 5: Topic A
Blame (others)




A Mental Picture of Blame
Imagine person you blame.
Setting a fishing pole in water.
They place the hook down into the water.
This person, you blame,
leaves their fishing pole in the water;
and they leave to do other activities,

While you remain floundering
in murky waters of the past
biting at their hook



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options:  
Reflect - Vision - Awareness
OR; Continue Next Line:




Possible
Source of Blame


I blame (a person)________________
for ___________________________



I blame (a group) _________________
for _____________________________



I blame (an organization) ___________________
for ___________________________________



I blame (an event)___________________
for ________________________________.



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Vision - Awareness - Analyze
OR; Continue Next Line:




FOCUSING IN

My Blame With
Greatest Intensity

(state source)   _________________________
(state reason) for   ______________________



Release Statement
I let go my blame involving
(state source)   ____________________
(state reason) for   _________________


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Awareness - Change Options

Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links










Chapter A: Section 5: Topic B
Fear (others)


Level of Fear of
Others I Experience

Mild - Moderate - Intense


My pain is?
(describe level of pain)
_____________________



Possible Body Location
I Experience the Pain

Chest - Arm - Head - Stomach – Heart


My fear is located in my?
(describe body location)
_________________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Vision - Awareness
OR; Continue Next Line:




My Fear related To
Possible Life Circumstances
Work
Financial
Family
Relationship


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Vision - Awareness - Analyze
OR; Continue Next Line:




FOCUSING IN

My fear relates to
(state person, situation, organization)
_________________________




Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Vision - Awareness

Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links









Chapter A: Section 5: Topic C
Anger


Level of Anger I Experience
Mild - Moderate - High - Intense


My anger is?
(describe level of anger)
_________________



Possible Body Location
I Experience the Anger

Stomach - Chest
Head - Back
Heart - Arm



I feel my anger in my ?
(describe location)
_____________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Vision - Awareness
OR; Continue Next Line:




ANGER
ANALYSIS



Life situation my anger relates to is
___________________________




A person my anger relates to is
___________________________



An unresolved situation my anger relates to is
_____________________________________




Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Vision - Awareness - Analyze
OR; Continue Next Line:


FOCUSING IN

Anger Situation
With Greatest Intensity

__________________




Release Statement
I release my anger regarding
____________________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Awareness


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links










Chapter A: Section 5: Topic D
Forgive (others)


Forgiveness Metaphor
Untie the knot,
that binds you.


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Vision - Awareness
OR; Continue Next Line:




Forgiveness Statement


I forgive (a person) ________________
for their actions and behaviors regarding

_________________________________



I forgive (a organization) _____________
for their actions and behaviors regarding
_____________________________________


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Awareness - Change Options
OR; Continue Next Line:



FOCUSING IN

My Greatest Healing
Potential Is Forgiving

(state person)  
____________________
(state reason) for   _________________



Release Statement
I forgive (state person)   ___________________
for (state reason)   _______________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Awareness - Change Options

Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links









Chapter A: Section 5: Topic E
Grief and Loss



Grief Awareness
I grieve the loss of
_______________



Possible Body Location
I Experience the Grief

Stomach - Chest
Head - Back
Heart - Arm



I Feel The
Grief In My

(state body location)
_________________




GRIEF STATEMENTS


Memories Which Occur
To Me Are

____________________




Words I Would
Like to Share
_____________________




Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Vision - Awareness - Analyze
OR; Continue Next Line:



FOCUCING IN


My Grief With The
Greatest Intensity

____________



Release Statement

I let go of my grief
involving the loss of
_________________


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Awareness - Change Options

Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links









Chapter A: Section 5: Topic F
Betrayal


OVERVIEW

Possible
Betrayal Situation

An intimate relationship dynamics,
involving personal wounds



Potential
Awareness

Clarity regarding a hurtful issue
Expression personal feelings,
Awareness of personal responsibility
Behavior Change
Making amends




FOCUSING IN

Statement Related to
Hurtful Situation

My feelings regarding the hurtful situation are
______________________________________




Expression of My Being
Responsible for The Hurtful Situation

I helped created the hurtful situation by
________________________________


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Vision - Awareness
OR; Continue Next Line:




Making Amends
To make amends for the hurtful situation,
I will ______________________________


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Vision - Awareness

Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links












Chapter A: Section 5: Topic G
Letting Go (others)



Letting go
Metaphors

Burn it; Fire
Bury it; Earth
Wash it; Water
Cast to wind; Air




Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Vision - Awareness
OR; Continue Next Line:


FOCUSING IN

A person I choose
not to have in my life is
_____________________


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Vision - Awareness


Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links






Chapter A: Section 6
Emotional Learning
Opportunities




OVERVIEW

Primary
Assumption

Emotional awareness
can be a catalyst for
awareness and healing change


Possible Emotions
You Are Experiencing

Joy - Bliss - Glad - Glee
Happy - Cosmic - Calm - Excited
Hurt - Angry - Frustrated
Hopeless - Rage - Upset - Low




FOCUING IN

Emotional
Awareness

At this moment; I feel
(state specific emotion)
___________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Vision - Awareness
OR; Continue Next Line:



Location of Body
I Feel the Emotion

Stomach - Chest
Head - Back
Heart - Arm



I sense the emotion in my
(state body location)
___________________


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Vision - Awareness
OR; Continue Next Line:



Relate Emotional Experience
To Life Situation


The life situation this emotions relates to is
___________________________________


The person this emotions relate to is
______________________________


A past situation this emotion relates to is
_________________________________


A future situation this emotion relates to is
_________________________________


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Vision - Awareness
OR; Continue Next Line:


FOCUSING IN

The Life Situation
With the Greatest Emotional Intensity
_______________________




Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Reflect - Vision - Awareness
OR; Continue Next Section 7 & 8










Dialogue; Plans; Actions
Chapter A: Sections: 7-8


Dialogue Options
Section 7: Options A-F

Intuitive Dialogue - Mirror Dialogue
Discussion Dialogue - Solution Dialogue
Betrayal Dialogue - Email Dialogue


Change Related Opportunities
Section 8: Options A-F

Analyze - Vision
Delay/Linger/Anticipate
Action Plan - Play/Presence/Pleasure - Avoid






































Chapter A: Section 7: Option: A
Intuitive Dialogue


PRIMARY MOTIVATION
Aspire for the ability
to be sensitive to another person feelings,
and be motivated to become aware and
reflect on how you feel.



THE PROCESS


Step 1:
Issue Dialogue
Sit in a chair (X)
Make statements regarding the issue
you have with another person (B).

Move to another chair(Y) = Become (B)
Response to your statements from (B)’s perspective.

Move back to chair (X)
Reflect on (B)’s response
from your perspective.

Continue dialoguing
while moving between Chairs (X) & (Y)

As you move between the chairs
become aware of your emotions and feelings
and empathize how (B) could have felt
related to the issue and the dialogue.



Step 2:
Recap

Summarize your
learning and awareness
__________________




Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision

Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
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Chapter A: Section 7: Option: B
Mirror Dialogue


OBJECTIVE
To be heard
and understood
by another person


Primary Assumption
There must be a willingness
to listen, hear, and achieve
communication clarity



THE PROCESS

Step 1:
Stating the Issue

(A) Has an issue and (B) is open to
hearing (A)’s information,
regarding the issue

(A) make statements regarding the issue

(B) Repeats (A)’s statement;
and then says to (A),
is this what you said.

(A) clarifies (B)’s response,
until (A) feel (B) understands;
what was said.



Step 2:
Completing the
Issue Statement

(B) asked (A), is there more
(A) and (B) continue, Step 1 process; until
(A) feels the issue has been expressed.




Step 3:
Recap

(B) Summarizes the issue, until
(A) feels that (B) has an accurate
understanding of the issue.


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision

Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links

















Chapter A: Section 7: Option: C
Discussion Dialogue


OBJECTIVE
To discuss and/or share
information related to
an awareness, goal,
achievement or request.



Asking for a
Dialogue Opportunity:
Possible Situations
Work - Friends - Relative
Supportive atmosphere
Strangers with good vibes




Focusing In On:
Dialogue Possibilities


I could discuss; (specify topic)
   ______________________,

with (specify person)  
_____________________





I could discuss; (specify topic)
   ______________________,

with (specify person)  
_____________________





I could discuss; (specify topic)
   ______________________,

with (specify person)  
_____________________





Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Analyze - Vision

Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links


















Chapter A: Section 7: Option: D
Solution Dialogue

OBJECTIVE
Resolve or Solve
A problem or Situation


Primary Assumption
There must be a willingness to be
flexible, focused, hear and listen.



THE PROCESS
(A) And (B) have an
issue or problem to resolve

(A) states a possible solution to the issue

(B) repeats (A)’s solution,

(B) Responds to the (A)’s solution, which
might include new information

(A) repeats (B)’s solution

(A) Responds to (B)’s solution, which
might include additional information

The process continues until a solution is reached

If no solution is reached;
time is allow to process information.


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision

Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links



















Chapter A: Section 7: Option: E
Betrayal Dialogue

OBJECTIVE
To Integrate and resolve
a hurtful situation


Primary Assumption
Both participants bring to
the dialogue a willingness for:
honesty, compassion, letting go,
forgiveness, and making amends.



THE PROCESS

Phase 1:
Situation Statement

(A) Feels hurt, because of something (B) did
(B) is sorry for the effect (B)’s behavior had on (A).




Phase 2:
Recap

(A) Recaps the issues, until (B) understands
how (A)’s experienced the situation

(B) Recaps the issues, until (A) understands
how (B)’s experienced the situation




Phase 3:
Information/Awareness

(B) states the information and awareness
received from Phases I and II
(A) states the information and awareness
received from Phases I and II



Phase 4:
Healing

(B) states sorrow
for the impact on (A)

(A) forgives (B) and Lets Go
the impact of (B)’s behavior




Phase 5:
Making Amends

(B) offers amends to (A)
for the hurtful situation

(A) accepts (B) offer of Amends



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Vision

Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links
















Chapter A: Section 7: Option: F
Email Dialogue


OBJECTIVE
To communicate
through electronic media


Advantages
Can provide time to
integrate the message

Can provides time to
think through response

Can remove some of the
intensity of personal contact

Provides choice as to
when to respond

Speed - Efficiency


Limitations
Immediate clarification
is not possible,

Felt sense, vibes, and
energy dynamics are limited.



Opportunities's
Provides an opportunity
for personal communication
without a meeting.

Communicating facts,
statistics and planning information

Frame future personal dialogue
and/or group discussions,


Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options: 
Change Related Opportunity
Reflect - Awareness - Analyze - Vision

Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links







Chapter A: Section 8: Topic A
Analyze


INTRODUCTION
Analysis usually applies to
concepts, lists, and personal choices.


Assuming You Have a List
To Analyze (ask the question)

Are there any additional options?
Are there any options you can exclude?


List Range Method Option
Choose One
Degree of difficulty
Fear dynamics
Life changing potential
High - Low - Middle
Easy to Hard
Good to Bad
Small to Large


Once You have Completed
and Analyzed Your List

Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options:  
Reflect - Awareness - Action Plan

Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
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Chapter A: Section 8: Topic B  
Vision


Examples of a Vision

An Attitude - A Behavior - An Action
A Situation - An Event




Possible Visions
I vision my attitude to be
___________________


I vision my behavior to be
_____________________


I vision an action for myself to be
____________________________


I vision a situation to be
_____________________


I vision an event to be
___________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options:  
Reflect - Awareness - Analyze - Action Plan
OR; Continue Next Line:


FOCUSING IN


My Vision With
Greatest Intensity

___________________________



Review - Stop - Take a break
Or go to ONE of these options:  
Reflect - Awareness - Action Plan

Additional Links
HLQ Home
Link: Book 1: Chapters: A & B
All Chapters/All Links







Chapter A: Section 8: Topic C
Delay/Linger/Anticipate


Possible Reasons To
Delay/Linger/Anticipate

Choose not to change now
Cannot define specific goals
Feel comfortable with a vision at this time




Possible
Time Structuring
Activities

(While Waiting)


INTERNAL ACTIVITY OPTIONS
Affirming vision
Prayer regarding vision
Positive thinking regarding the vision
Trust - Relax


OUTSIDE ACTIVITY OPTIONS
Keep busy - Hobbies - Shop
Recreation - Exercise
Eat - Rest



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Chapter A: Section 8: Topic D  
Action Plan


Characteristics
Of A Goal

Is measurable
Is realistic
Has a definite completion date




Examples
Of A Goal

An attitude goal
A behavior goal
Action goal





Possible Goals
I will (state the attitude change)  _____________
by  (state date) ________________________  




I will (state the behavior change)  _____________
by  (state date) ________________________  




I will (state the action)  _____________
by  (state date) _______________  



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FOCUSING IN


My Goal With The
Greatest Intensity to Achieve

I will (state the goal)  __________________
by  (state completion date) _________________  



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Chapter A: Section 8: Topic E 
Play/Presence/Pleasure


There is No Need
To Be or Feel Productive:
Enough has been accomplished
Being present is enough



Possible
Time Structuring Activities


INTERNAL ACTIVITY OPTIONS
Meditation or Prayer
Spiritual Growth
Be - Be Present


EXTERNAL ACTIVITY OPTIONS
Exercise and Athletics
Dialogue and Discussion
Intimacy and Passion
Experience nature
Personal healing
Pleasure reading



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Chapter A: Section 8: Topic F 
Avoid


Possible
Reasons To Avoid
Fear of success
Negative self-image

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Time Options
While Avoiding

INTERNAL ACTIVITY OPTIONS
Doubting yourself
Spacing out
Worry and feeling nervous



External Activity Options
Keep busy
Push yourself
Risky activities
Isolation



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Overview: Life Changes
Chapter B: Sections 1-2


       Section 1:
Change Characteristics
Section 2: Change Situations





















































Chapter B - Section 1
Change Characteristics


BA: Aspects of Journey
o Visions and anticipation of intentions
o Disappointment and Learning Opportunities
o Faith; accepting and learning from what Shows Up
o Unlearning old patterns
o Unexpected challenges


BB: Change Overview
o No permanence; always change
o Choice and movement: metaphor for change
o Events force change
o Change happens
o Change can be a choice



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BC: Components of Positive Change
o Assessment living patterns
o Desire to change; self image
o Support system and Network
o Changing habits and struck thinking patterns
o Break through resistance and Self sabotage techniques
o Faith: Spiritual support; Affirmations
o Patience - Patience - Patience
o Planning, focus; commitment


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BD: The Experience Learning process
Experience - Faith - Awareness - Heal - Change

A: Experience
o Identify the potential learning opportunities.
o These experiences usually present an opportunity to reflection .
o The learning opportunities can be subtle or dramatic.

B: Faith: Acceptance/Gratitude
o A faith belief system can be helpful in coping with challenging experiences
o Faith can help with emotional release.

C: Awareness
o Look for insight and positive change opportunities.
o Emotions can be a catalyst for learning opportunities

D: Heal:
o A sense of an integration of the past and the present.
o A sense of release and/or letting go.

E: Change Possibilities: Attitude; Perception; Interpretation; Belief System; Behavior; Intention; Action
o Sometimes a change requires no action: examples are a change in attitude or perception. .
o Sometimes a change requires a new behavior or a specific action.
o Remember to feel good and celebrate when positive change occurs.


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Chapter B: Section 2
Change Situations


BE: Assessing Our Attitudes and Behaviors
o I never have enough
o I do not feel safe and secure
o I would like someone to rescue me
o I do not plan well
o It is difficult for me to make decisions
o I do not handle money very well
o It is difficult for me to receive
o It is difficult for me to give
o I have a fear of success
o I have a fear of failure


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BF: The Dynamics Of Love
o Symbiosis: co-dependency; parent/child dynamics
o Romance: passion involving relationship vibrancy
o Bonded relationship: commitment/time durability
o Selfless service: Community projects; social concern
o Nurture self: thankfulness; personal wellness; tool kit; pleasure
o Faith: Spiritual support and protection; Intuitive communication


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Assess your current life situation;
Which of the above love dynamics;
has the greatest intensity:

__________________________


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BG: Awareness Window
A: Awareness Window: Inflated Ego
o I am _______ .   Examples might be: God, love, success, a doctor
o I am Right: (a position of inflation)
Hidden Awareness:
o I know everything: (a position of ignorance)
o I attempt to make myself right: (possible manipulation)


B: Awareness Window: Deflated Ego
o I am _______.   Examples might be: worthless; hopeless, not good
o I am Wrong (a position of discount)
Hidden Awareness
o I do not know anything. (a position of denial)
o I attempt to make myself wrong: (possible manipulation)


C: Awareness Window: Balanced Ego
o I am _______ .   Example: My self-image is fluid, with a positive tilt
o I am open to new ideas; learning and change.
Hidden Awareness
o There is much mystery and unknown information. (a position of creativity)
o I attempt to listen and respect others. (a process of acceptance)


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BH: Intimacy: A Catalyst Healing Change
o Power of Commitment: a vested interest in resolving hurtful situations.
o Expression: there is a flow of honest communication
o Openness:
      = Vulnerable and open to change
      = Willing to making amends


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BI: Trust and Risk
o Trust Dynamics: confidence in someone; they will be there for you; and assume some of the responsibility
o Risk Dynamics: confidence in our ability to handle challenging situations; we will be there for others; we will assume some of the responsibility


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BJ: Disappointment Dynamics
Positive
o Blaming Yourself
o Blaming Someone
o Giving Up

Negative
o Hopelessness
o Set new goals
o Move on
o Learn from experience


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BK: Stuck Behaviors
o General Habit Possibilities: Attitudes - Behaviors - Past events - Future expectations - Entitlements
o Internal Thinking Dynamics: On Edge - Not worthy - Rigid - Anxiety - Hopeless - Dreamer - Guilt
o Internal Positions: I will never have - I will never be - I will always be - I cannot live without - I never feel - I will always
o Possible Life Drama Positions: Victim - Needy - Helper - Protector - Leader - Hero - Efficient - Appeaser


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Assess your current life situation;
Which of the above stuck behaviors;
has the greatest intensity:

__________________________


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BL: Responsibility: A variety of levels of personal responsibility
A: No Responsibility
o All the experiences in my life happen
o Everything bad that happens to me. is someone else’s fault

B: Attracting Responsibility
o I witnessed all the experiences in my life
o I allowed all the experiences in my life
o I supported all the experiences in my life

C: Thought Responsibility
o I encouraged all the experiences in my life
o I am accountable all the experiences in my life
o I planned all the experiences in my life

D: Active Responsibility
o I manifested all the experiences in my life
o I created all the experiences in my life
o I caused all the experiences in my life


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BM: The Doing Process; Making What I Want Real:

Setting Realistic
Measurable Goals
To be accomplished by a Specific Date


o I will; state goal ________________
o by; state target date ______________
o I will receive support for achieving this goal by doing the following:
       = I will discuss this goal in the following situations ____________
       = I will discuss this goal with the following persons ____________
       = I will seek spiritual support in the following manner __________

If I do not achieve this goal
I will learn from the experience
and set a new Goal


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